Don't Wait for the Right; Go and Find Them

It is already almost the month of March and that means Valentine’s Day is over. Did you have a wonderful time with your love one or are you one of those men or women who stayed at home and watched TV or just stayed up late in front facebook or twitter? If you are one of them, well there are two words or tips I share to my single friends and those words are move and explore. You need to be friendly and start communicating to a lot of people whether it is offline or online. You need people to notice you. Waiting for the right guy or gal to find you and love you will never going to work anymore like they always say. Imagine you are inside a box without a hole. How can they find you if you are not going to show them your beauty, your talents, your skills and your personality if you are hiding and scared?

So how are you going to mingle with people and explore? Well for offline; go to colleague’s and friend’s parties or any events. You will never know who you might meet and you will never know if there are opportunities for you both in career and love life. Well for online there are countless ways on how can you move and explore. First, there are social networks like Twitter and Facebook. I know a lot of people ending up with a partner with these social network giants. Second, there are online dating sites where you could find other single person just like you searching for a partner. Third, just find them, and interact and in the internet, there are countless possibilities.
Just remember, be yourself and be confident about yourself. Impression always last so make it an impression at first.

There is No Age in Love

I love you so much.

People say that at my age, I don’t really know what love is. Well, then maybe there’s another explanation for the way I feel about you. How every second I’m away from you seems like an eternity. How every time I try to think of something else, I can only think of one thing, and that’s you. How every time I see you, I smile more and more, and how I’m so happy I could cry. How every time I talk of you to others I want to tell someone how wonderful you are. How the times I’m most happy are when I’m with you and I miss you the most right after I leave your side. Maybe there is another explanation for this uncontrollable feeling inside of me, but right now, I’ll hold the thought that I love you inside my heart forever. ♥

Life is Short

Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in ways more than one. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of its being. But we try, don’t we? We try and find out by loving and being loved. We try and find out by getting hurt. We try and find out.

When you enter a relationship, when you commit yourself, you must always bear in mind that you are also sharing a part of yourself to a stranger who by mere chance or destined by fate, you happened to like and love. In doing so, you take a risk, a GREAT RISK.

He is really different. That is why you should not expect him to be like you. This being so, you must learn to accept him in his totality as a person. Growth is brought about by your indifference which in one way or another cultivate the relationship. It is also important to remember that trust is a vital element of many relationships.

UNCONDITIONAL TRUST. No ifs, no buts.

When you love someone, honestly love, then you must be willing to sacrifice. There are times when hurts go so deep, when pain is almost unbearable, when you are about to give up. But loving is not giving up so easily. It is being there when all have gone, when there is very little strength left, when it is too much to stand.

Loving is letting be. There is really no difference between the "as-a-matter-of-fact" way and the romantic way, you might just be in a different plane of understanding which may be the cause of misinterpretations.

If he says he is honest with you, then don’t kill yourself by saying he’s not. How do you know? His past experience is not enough to doubt him. If you can offer your "romantic" way of loving to the best, then do so. And if he can love you the "as-a-matter-of-fact" way in return, then accept it. Please do not measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other and have an open channel of communication constantly where there is a free sharing of ideas. No ifs, no buts.

Get the best out of life. Love and get hurt. Get hurt and learn. Learn and love again. It’s a cycle of being. Life is short. Experience it.

Optimism for 2011

to the start the new year right, what we need is

TO THINK POSITIVE...

LIFE is pretty SIMPLE...

when we are asking for apples and life hands us lemons,
then we should make lemonade...
if we're on your way out and it starts to rain,
at least we won't have to water the plants anymore...

it is a matter of seeing things in perspective...
the benefits may not be immediate nor obvious,
but we have to know this for sure:

GOD will never give us anything we can't handle...
nothing we can't triumph over...

There will be problems...
There will be struggles...
But if they're not there...

how would we know how strong we are?

JayDee...

It doesn't take a reason to love someone,
but it does to like someone.

You don't love
someone because you want to, you love someone
because you are destined to.

It's because you
fall in Love with them, that you then try to
find a reason, but you always come up with
the answer, No reason!

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I love you not only for what you are, but for
what I am when I am with you. I love you not
only for what you have made of yourself, but for
what you are making of me. I love you for the part
of me that you bring out.

If only I could hold you right now and let you know how happy I am to have you in my life, expect me to never let you go. I'd rather lose everything in life than to live without you."

The Things I Hate

I HATE the way rains and roses still remind me of YOU, and the way Belgian chocolates will never taste as sweet...

I HATE the way my smile has changed: plastered, hesitant, forced...

I HATE that I find myself wanting to call you at 1 AM...

I HATE the way I'm supposed to pick up the pieces and move on...that I'm supposed to believe that everything's gonna be alright...

I HATE that I have to drink to forget...and the hangover that follows and remembering all over again...

But the thing I HATE the most is that no matter how I try, I can't bring myself to hate YOU the way I hate everything else!

Someday

Someday, you'll gonna realize
One day, you'll see this through my eyes

But then, I won't even be there
I'll be happy somewhere
Even if I cared

I know, you don't really see my worth
You think, you're the last guy on earth

Well, I've got news for you
I know I'm not that strong
But it won't take long
Won't take long

'Cause someday, someone's gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday, someone's gonna take your place

One day, I'll forget about you
You'll see, I won't even miss you
Someday, someday...

But now, I know you can tell
I'm down and I'm not doin' well

But one day, these tears
They will all run dry
I won't have to cry
Sweet goodbye

'Cause someday, someone's gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday, someone's gonna take your place, Ooh...

One day, I'll forget about you
You'll see I won't even miss you
Someday, I know someone's gonna be there

Someday, someone's gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday, someone's gonna take your place

One day, I'll forget about you
You'll see, I won't even miss you
Someday, someday...





someday, chin...